You would figure out how to get an audience with her. I can't imagine scheduling would be that much of a bitch; your dance card's hardly gonna be full when talking to her is the priority.

...Shit, dance cards are an actual thing here, aren't they. [Whee. Goodie.] Got a bead on what happens if you don't follow her pretty little polite society rules?

[Figure one: this asshole, not following her pretty little polite society rules.]